Change your mind, change your life

When did you begin to choose the life you are leading now? When did you decide on the job you have, and against the job you want? When did you decide that the money you make now is all you can make? Did you decide?

Change Your Mind to change your life is a practice about creating your future and the decisions you are making today, will create that future.

“Deciding, determination and belief are the starting points for success. They open you to new opportunities to do and be anything you desire, and you only need a subconscious thought to plant the seed. How do we do this?”

Change Your Mind to change your life will having you asking the right questions. By learning how the mind works, we understand how to break the cycles that keep us on the outside looking in, instead of where we truly wish to be.

This understanding will open your mind and your eyes to a world which has always been there; you just were not aware and did not know the questions to highlight this to you.

How often have we found ourselves looking across the road to discover something lacking in our own lives? By Changing our Minds we remove the lack in our own lives. We remove the unnamed need that eats away at our day to day lives. By Changing our Minds we walk away from a life that is constantly needing repairs and begin a life that Rewrites our Reality.

Whether we know it or not our energies are focused and those energies are working in our lives, for better or worse. Like electricity, our own energies do not decide they will work in one area, and not another. Electricity doesn’t stop working because the toaster is bad or the TV is on a negative channel. Electricity flows through the circuit until it is complete. Our energies act in exactly the same way. Change Your Mind to change your life expands this simple life truth, and shows you how to change your circuit path so the things you want in your life receive the energy, rather than sending it to the things that are strapping you down.

The first and most important element of success is to … open your mind.

A closed mind seals off creative solutions and eliminates any possibility for new opportunities. A closed mind keeps you where you are in life, where you always have been, and will continue to be. A closed mind creates: 

  • Constant struggle to achieve or get ahead

  • Constant conflicts, obstacles and resentments that rear their ugly heads

  • Remorse of not doing or having what you truly dream of, and

  • The envy you feel each time you meet, read or hear about someone more successful than you, knowing you want to be in that person’s shoes. 

None of these feelings are conducive to success. Envision wild horses pent up in a corral.  They yearn to be free. As long as the fences are up and the gate is locked, the wild horses that desire freedom more than life, itself, will never be free. What does this do to them? They become angry and willing to trample the person who caged them, just to get free. They blame and resent their keeper for their situation.  Each time they see other horses roaming free in the distance, all their anger, resentment and hatred surfaces; and they envy the freedom of the other horses. Now, see these wild horses as you and your dream for success, corralled and caged by your closed mind. Can you see how, as the horses, you become angry, resentful, hating, and envious? Can you see how a closed mind and the emotions it provokes affect your reactions to situations? Wild horses will kill their keeper for freedom and react viciously at seeing other horses that are free. What reactions do you have to situations, where you feel anger, resentment or blame?  

 All the horses need to gain their freedom is to unlock and open the gate.  All you need to do to be on your path to achieving success is to open your mind

When you truly open your mind, the anger, resentments and envy are gone; however, it takes some work on your part. Let’s look at how the mind works.

A thought, just like an action, is energy in motion. Emotional thoughts carry even more energy.  When you create a thought, especially one you feel emotional about (such as your dream of success), you have created energy that goes out to the universe and allows you to explore, create and grow the thought.  The process takes care of itself.

We all have thoughts, but we don’t all achieve our dreams. That’s because thoughts may be negative or positive in nature.  Even thoughts you believe are positive may, in truth, be negative to achievement.  For example, your dream is to own a new home. The thought you constantly hold is, “I want to buy a new home.”  This sounds like a positive thought, but it’s actually keeping you from getting your new home.  Why?  The phrase “I want” keeps you wanting to buy a new home, rather than actually buying it. So, you continue to want to buy it — never achieving your goal.  

Focus is another problem in how thoughts are formulated in our thoughts.  You constantly think about that new home you “want” to buy. You look at different homes and floor plans, comb the “for sale” home classifieds, pick out the colour you’ll paint the outside, look at landscaping ideas, and so on.  You would believe that this is a positive focus, because it keeps the goal constantly in your mind and your actions are that of someone who is buying a new home. The problem, however, is that the focus is on “getting” versus “doing”.  Rather than moving toward your goal, you are dreaming about it.

With an open mind, you plant the seed, distance yourself from it, and let the universe do the rest. You must, however, be open to all possibilities without exception. That means only positive thinking, no attachments, and no labelling. 

An open and positive mind allows the universe to act upon your inner thought energy and create that which you seek. It’s like watching a little miracle take place. It can astound you, when you realize it’s happening.   

Years ago, after a divorce from a financially irresponsible spouse, Beth wrote down goals for her children and herself — to have enough food on the table, a good roof over their heads, and a decent car to drive in ten years. Many years later, she was preparing to close on a townhouse and had just picked up a new car. Then, it hit her — she remembered those long-ago goals that she hadn’t even thought of since. She counted the years and was amazed. The closing on her house would be exactly two months shy of ten years from the divorce date.  Beth realized then that she should have written in five years instead of ten!

As you can see, distancing yourself from the goals and just working toward them brings success.  Beth determined; then she believed, and just kept working to do better. The process took care of itself. Yet, Beth never saw it coming, until it had already had arrived. However, Beth probably missed a lot of opportunities along the way and went through a lot more struggle, because she wasn’t consciously moving toward her goals.

Energy Expands

Your thoughts become energy. If your thoughts are negative, the energy is negative; if positive, then the energy is positive. When emotions become involved with the thoughts, the energy is even stronger.  The energy, however, doesn’t remain dormant — it expands. It expands each time you think your thought. Remember our example, “I want to buy a new home.” The more you think this thought, the energy expands and builds, and the stronger the thought becomes.  Dreaming of your “want” expands the energy.

As energy builds and gains strength, it begins to attract like energy.  Like a magnet, the energy attracts other like matter to it. Since the energy is inside you, it attracts the like matter to you. If your thoughts lean toward the negative, then you are attracting negative matter — dead end jobs, horrible bosses, bad relationships, never achieving that which you most want, constant struggle, conflicts, built up anger, and so on. Whereas, if your thoughts are positive, you attract positive outcomes and situations. 

As you can see, negative thoughts and energy weaken you and your ability to achieve. Positive thoughts and energy empower you. Whatever you think, you attract back to you in greater degrees.  Literally, your thoughts do create your reality.  Evidence is all around you. Are your thoughts negative or positive? Do negative or positive situations, events and people surround you?

Beyond Thoughts.  If your thoughts and the energy attached to them are negative, what type of speech and actions will you put forth? Negative!  What is inside you (thoughts) is how you respond to life.  If your thoughts are negative, then your speech and actions are negative, too. Likewise, if your thoughts are positive, then so is your speech and actions, which also add to the building and attracting of like energy. 

Your thoughts not only define your reality, but they define who you are and how you act, as well. 

If you want to work with me on changing your mind to change your life, join our 7 day Mindset Mastery Challenge or the Mindset Alchemy Program.


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